Sales skills you already have as a mum
As a mum (or mom, in the US), you already use many of the core skills remote sales runs on: listening for what someone really needs, negotiating calmly, staying organised under pressure, and hearing “no” without falling apart. What you probably don’t have yet is the structure: a call framework, the language, and the reps that turn those instincts into results. This guide maps each mum skill to a real appointment setter or closer task and gives you a practice drill for each. She Sells, with a team in Australia and the US, trains women to do exactly that through live coaching and role play.
Your skills, mapped to the job
Remote sales has two main roles. Appointment setters reach out to leads, qualify them and book calls. Closers run the sales call and help the buyer decide. (New to the difference? Read remote closer vs appointment setter.) Here’s how everyday mum skills line up with both.
| What you already do | Setter task | Closer task | Practice drill |
|---|---|---|---|
| Working out why a toddler is really upset | Qualifying: finding the real reason a lead enquired | Discovery: uncovering the problem behind the problem | Ask “and what’s behind that?” three times in a real conversation |
| Negotiating bedtime, screen time and vegetables | Getting a hesitant lead to commit to a call time | Handling objections calmly | Write your five most common “no”s and a calm reply to each |
| Running the family calendar | Managing follow-ups and CRM notes | Keeping a full calendar with prepared calls | Track one week of follow-ups in a simple spreadsheet |
| Explaining things simply to kids | Writing short, clear messages | Explaining an offer without jargon | Explain something you know well in 60 seconds, out loud |
| Staying calm during a meltdown | Not taking ghosting or rude replies personally | Holding steady through silence and tough questions | Practise pausing three seconds before you answer |
| Following through on what you said you’d do | Consistent outreach, every day | Doing what you promised after the call | Set a daily outreach target and tick it off for two weeks |
1. Listening for what’s really going on
The US government’s O*NET database lists active listening first among the essential skills for sales representatives of services: giving full attention, understanding the point being made and asking questions without interrupting. You do this every day when you work out that “I don’t want to go to school” actually means “someone was mean to me”.
On the job: a setter listens for whether a lead is actually a fit. A closer listens for the reason the person booked the call, then reflects it back.
How to practise: in your next three conversations with an adult, summarise what they said before you respond (“so what you’re saying is…”). Notice how often you were slightly wrong.
2. Negotiating without a fight
Every parent negotiates. The skill underneath is staying friendly while holding a clear outcome in mind, and that’s what objection handling is.
On the job: buyers say “I need to think about it”, “it’s not the right time” or “I need to talk to my partner”. A good closer doesn’t argue. She gets curious and asks questions until the real concern is on the table.
How to practise: write the objections you hear most at home (“five more minutes!”) next to sales objections. Practise one calm, curious reply for each, out loud.
3. Organisation and follow-up
If you’ve ever juggled swimming lessons, birthday parties and a sick day in one week, you can run a follow-up system. In sales, a lot of deals are won or lost after the first conversation.
On the job: O*NET lists maintaining customer records and contacting prospective customers among the core tasks for sales reps. For setters, it’s tracking every lead. For closers, it’s following up on the people who didn’t decide on the call.
How to practise: pick a simple tracker (a spreadsheet works) and log every follow-up you owe someone this week, personal or work. Did you close every loop?
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4. Staying calm when it’s not going your way
Rejection is part of every sales job. Leads ghost, buyers say no, and some days nothing lands. Mums often have more practice with this than they think: being told “you’re the worst mum ever” at 7am and still packing the lunch is resilience.
On the job: setters send a lot of messages that get no reply. Closers have calls where the buyer says no. The skill is not taking it personally and getting back on the next call.
How to practise: after any “no” this week, write one line on what you learned. Over time “no” becomes data, not a verdict.
5. Explaining things simply
Explaining why the sky is blue to a four-year-old is a masterclass in clear communication. Buyers don’t want jargon either.
On the job: setters write short messages that get replies. Closers explain an offer in plain words and connect it to the buyer’s goal.
How to practise: record yourself explaining something you know well in 60 seconds. Play it back and cut every word that isn’t needed.
6. Reading the room (and the time zone)
You can tell from one sigh whether it’s a good moment to bring something up. On a sales call, that’s knowing when to pause, when to ask a question and when to stop talking.
On the job: closers notice hesitation and ask about it. Setters time their outreach for when people are likely to reply, which matters when you work across AU and US time zones.
How to practise: on your next phone call, count how often you fill a silence. Try letting one sit for three seconds.
What mum skills don’t cover (yet)
Here’s the honest part. Your instincts are a head start, not the whole job. You’ll still need to learn:
- A call framework. A structure you can repeat when you’re tired and the kids are finally asleep.
- Sales language. Specific questions and phrases that move a conversation forward without pressure.
- The tools. CRMs, calendars and messaging platforms.
- How the pay works. Many remote sales roles are commission-heavy or commission-only, and results take time. US appointment setter pay, for example, shows a median of $16.08 an hour on Payscale, and it varies a lot.
- How to spot a bad job. The FTC warns that a job promising a lot of money in a short time with little work is almost certainly a scam. If you’re asked to pay to join or recruit friends, walk away.
Want to see how this fits into a real day? Read a day in the life of a remote closer, and if you’re heading back after a baby, returning to work after maternity leave remotely.
A two-week practice plan
- Days 1 to 3: listen and summarise in every conversation.
- Days 4 to 6: write your objection list and calm replies.
- Days 7 to 9: run your follow-up tracker.
- Days 10 to 12: record 60-second explanations and trim them.
- Days 13 to 14: role play a short sales call with a friend, then swap.
Role play with feedback is where most of the improvement happens, which is why it sits at the centre of She Sells training.
How She Sells helps you build on what you have
She Sells trains women, especially mums, for remote closing and appointment setting (see our programs):
- She Launches is the foundation: live coaching, role play and frameworks. It doesn’t include direct placement.
- She Soars is the career program through the She Sells Cert III in Remote Sales certificate. Once you’re certified, our recruitment team works with you to land a role within 90 days, or your money back.
I was a primary school teacher in a small town before sales. When I moved into remote sales in 2020, I made $440 in my first month. Not typical, not a promise, just proof the skills can be learned.
Frequently asked questions
Can being a mum count as experience for a sales job?
Not on its own, but the skills behind it do. Listening, negotiating, organising and staying calm are real sales skills, and you can describe them with examples in an interview. Pair them with training and practice.
Which is better for mums, setting or closing?
Appointment setting is a common way in and is often easier to fit around family in blocks of time. Closing usually means scheduled calls, sometimes in the evening, and asks more of you on each call.
How do I practise sales skills at home?
Role play with a friend, record yourself explaining things, and keep a follow-up tracker. Short daily practice beats occasional long sessions.
Do I need sales experience to get a remote sales job?
Many entry roles don’t require it, but employers want to see you can hold a conversation and follow a process. Training and role play help you show that.
How long until I’m good at sales?
It varies. Most people need months of consistent practice before results feel steady, and nobody can promise a timeline.
Ready to put your skills to work? Book a free call with the She Sells team.
Results vary. Nothing here is a promise of income. See our earnings disclaimer.
